Anyone
who has ever been overweight, whether it's a few extra pounds post pregnancy or
injury or morbidly obese, knows the challenge associated with trying to find
flattering clothing styles for their body type and size. To get the most
choices in the styles you can wear well, never underestimate weight loss and
better clothing options.
I
have a friend who was overweight, about 100lbs overweight. She had a great
marriage to a loving guy and when she finally got serious about losing weight
she asked him a very loaded question (she knew it was a loaded question but was
curious about how he would respond).
She
asked her husband if he would still find her attractive physically when she
lost her weight. I mean he obviously found her attractive when she was heavy
but would he still when she was thinner? Of course, he said yes so she
questioned him further: "how can you find me attractive when I'm thin and
when I'm fat, it should be one or the other, shouldn't it"?
I
thought his answer was perfect. He said "honey, I love the way you look
now, but weight loss and better clothing options go hand in hand so you will be
able to wear some styles that may be a little sexier, and I will like that
too" Wow, the guy got himself out of a pickle with that answer!
But
it is true, when you are overweight and you have rolls no clothes fit you the
way they are supposed to. You don't have to be a stick figure but whenever you
have excess fat and skin it just throws off the line of your clothes.
I'm
not even talking about some of the 'fashions' that people will wear in a
misguided attempt to camouflage their rolls. I'm just talking about the way
clothes were made to fit and hang on the body can get completely distorted when
that body has a lot of excess rolls and skin.
Until
you get to the point where you have lost all your weight, there are some
choices you can make that will help you look better during the process. Gone are the days of the muumuu and stretch
pants, thank goodness. Today there are fashionable styles for anyone who has
extra body fat.
The
biggest rule to follow is to find clothes that are well fitted without being
too baggy or too tight. A good fit is the most important thing to strive for.
Don't try to camouflage your rolls, you really won't be fooling anyone. If you
wear clothes that are too tight it will be like shining a spotlight on your
least desirable features.
So,
you know that the better shape you're in the better you will look (not only in
clothes but out of them as well) and that weight loss and better clothing
options go hand in hand, but make sure that you also find clothes that are as
flattering as possible to your shape while you are in the process of losing
weight.
That is such a great post. I also love doing yoga as I had gained lots of weight after my delivery. Even my gym clothing did not fitted me so I had to buy new alo yoga clothes. My husband and my trainer really motivates me to get back into my previous shape.
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